"When you want to direct someone toward the good, first put him at peace 
bodily and honor him with words of love. For nothing inclines such a man
 to shame and induces him to cast of his vice and be changed for the 
better as do bodily goods and honor, which he sees in you. Then, with 
love tell him a word or two, and do not be inflamed with anger toward 
him. Do not let him see any cause of enmity toward you. For love does 
not know how to lose its temper."
-St. Isaac the Syrian  
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